Your Child's First Dental Visit: What Actually Happens

A child's first dental visit is a look and a conversation, not treatment. Nothing is drilled, nothing is removed, and nothing happens that has not been shown to your child first. A good time to come is around the first birthday, or whenever the first tooth appears, whichever comes first. The appointment is short, and most of it is spent getting your child comfortable with the chair, the light and the mirror.

If you would like to book a first visit, or just ask what it involves before committing, that is completely normal.
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When should the first visit happen?

The usual guidance is the first birthday or the arrival of the first tooth, whichever comes first. It sounds early to a lot of parents, and there is a straightforward reason for it: decay can begin the moment a tooth appears in the mouth.

Children are also seen much younger than that when there is a specific reason. A baby can be seen within days of birth where a natal tooth is present and needs assessing for feeding or airway safety. That is rare, but it happens, and it is worth knowing the door is open.

The other argument for coming early is simply that the first appointment sets the tone for every one after it. A child whose first visit was a mirror and a toy is a very different patient at six than a child whose first visit was a filling.

What actually happens in the appointment?

The mirror comes first

Before anything goes near the mouth, your child holds the mirror and has a look themselves. It is a small thing that changes the dynamic completely — the instrument is now something they are using, not something being used on them.

Show, tell, do

This is the method the whole appointment runs on. Every instrument is shown, explained, and demonstrated somewhere harmless — on a finger, on a hand, on a toy — before it is used in the mouth. Nothing appears without warning, and nothing is a surprise.

If a child says stop, everything stops. That is not a technique, it is the rule.

The words we use

Small children do not need clinical vocabulary and it tends to worry them. So the suction is the funny straw, the polishing brush is the tickle brush, and plaque is sugar bugs. Counting the teeth is a game, and most children join in.

It is also why parents are asked, gently, not to use words like needle, drill, pain or hurt in the lead-up. Children have usually never heard of these things and introducing them creates a fear that was not there.

Sitting with you, if that helps

Very young children often do best sitting on a parent's lap, knee to knee with the clinician, rather than alone in a large chair. Others want to ride the chair up and down, which is generally the highlight. Either is fine.

A look, a count, and a chat with you

The clinical part is a visual examination: which teeth have arrived, how the bite is developing, whether there are any early white marks along the gum line of the upper front teeth, and how the gums look. Fluoride varnish is sometimes applied, which takes moments and tastes of not very much.

X-rays are not routine at a first visit for a small child, and are only taken when there is a clinical reason.

Much of the appointment is actually a conversation with you: brushing technique, toothpaste, bottles and cups, dummies, thumb sucking, snacking patterns, and what to expect over the next year.

A toy, and a high five

There is a toy at the start or at the end — sometimes both. Nervous children almost always leave with a high five and a smile, and a good number come back mainly for the toys. That is a perfectly good reason to look forward to a dental appointment.

Not sure your child is ready? Bring them along to watch a sibling first — no question is a silly one.
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What if my child is already anxious?

Then the first appointment does even less, and takes as long as it needs to. Sometimes the whole visit is sitting in the chair, meeting the light, and going home. That counts as a successful appointment.

Because this comes up often, we have written about it separately in helping anxious children at the dentist, which goes into the preparation and the wording in more detail than there is room for here.

What can you do beforehand?

• Book a time when your child is usually at their best. Mornings suit most young children better than late afternoon.
• Keep the build-up light and brief. Mentioning it once the day before is generally better than a week of preparation.
• Avoid reassurance that names the fear. "It won't hurt" introduces the idea of hurting. "They're going to count your teeth" does not.
• Do not use the dentist as a consequence. Teeth are not a punishment and a visit should not feel like one.
• Bring a familiar toy or comforter if that helps your child settle anywhere else.
• Let them watch you or a sibling first if you are already coming in. Children copy far more than they are told.

What does a first visit cost?

For eligible children, dental care is bulk-billed under the Medicare Child Dental Benefits Schedule, which means no out-of-pocket cost for the services covered. You can check whether your child is eligible with our CDBS checker.

Where the schedule does not apply, a check-up, clean and X-rays is $150 for a child under 10 and $250 from 10 upwards. That assumes your private health fund contributes nothing; a fund with children's general cover may pay part of it. A written quote is provided before any treatment is started, and nothing is ever done at a first visit without discussing it with you first.

Quick answers

How old should my child be for their first dental visit?

Around the first birthday, or when the first tooth appears, whichever comes first. Younger where there is a specific reason. Coming early is about familiarity as much as it is about examination.

Will anything be done to my child's teeth at the first visit?

No treatment is carried out at a first visit. It is a look, a count and a conversation with you. Fluoride varnish is occasionally applied, and it is shown and explained first like everything else.

What if my child will not open their mouth?

That is a normal outcome and not a failed appointment. What matters is that the visit was calm and that they are willing to come back. The next one is almost always easier.

Do baby teeth really matter if they fall out anyway?

Yes. Back baby teeth are not shed until around age eleven or twelve, and they hold the space the adult teeth need. There is also the habit side: a child who learns a tooth is disposable does not look after the next one. More in what happens when a baby tooth is lost early.

Booking a first visit

A dental visit is meant to be one of the easier things in a family's calendar, not the hardest, and that is the standard the appointment is built around. General guidance on looking after children's teeth is published by healthdirect.

Berala Dental has looked after Berala families since 2002 and sees children every day.
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You can also read about children's dental services, check eligibility with the CDBS checker, or see what to expect as a new patient.

Written and reviewed by Humzah Aly, Oral Health Therapist. This article is general information only and is not a substitute for personalised dental advice. Please see a dental practitioner to discuss what is right for you.